Andrea Owen, author of How to Stop Feeling Like Sh*t, reveals 14 toxic habits that are holding us back from happiness. And host Keith McArthur speaks with fitness contributor Kathleen Trotter about exercise resolutions for the new year.
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Episode 13 Show Notes
[00:00] Welcome and Intro
[1:04] Featured interview with Andrea Owen
Andrea is author of How to Stop Feeling Like Sh*t: 14 Habits that Are Holding You Back from Happiness. She is a life coach based on North Carolina and hosts the Your Kick-Ass Life Podcast.
In this conversation, Keith and Andrea discuss:
- When Andrea hit rock bottom [2:13]
- How Andrea became a life coach [4:19]
- Andrea opens up about her struggles with co-dependency, eating disorders, love addiction and alcohol abuse [5:30]
- How Andrea identified the 14 toxic habits that hold us back from happiness [9:31]
- Keith admits that he sees 13 of the toxic habits in himself [10:53]
- Andrea talks about the most common habits that hold us back [11:30]
- Negative self-talk [11:30]
- Isolating and hiding out [13:36]
- So many of us struggle alone with our toxic habits [14:18]
- Dealing with these habits takes work [16:10]
- The habit Andrea is currently struggling with [17:38]
- When you want to cancel, is it because of fear or self care? [18:54]
- Why Andrea doesn’t believe in affirmations, but does recommend mantras [22:02}
- Andrea on meditation [25:26]
- Practical tools:
- Make a list of all the things we’re scared people will think about us [28:00]
- Talk to others about our successes [32:29]
[34:34] Andrea Owen’s Instruction Manual
1. What are the habits you maintain every day to stay happy and healthy? [34:49]
- Getting enough sleep
- Drinking enough water
- Exercise
2. What personal development book do you recommend? [35:08]
- Daring Greatly by Brené Brown
- “it’s foundational in the work that I’ve done with myself and my clients”
3. Favorite personal mantra / inspirational quote [35:30]
- Mantra: “Well, that just happened.”
- Quote: “If you don’t change your direction, you’re going to end up exactly where you’re headed.”
4. What’s your one guilty pleasure? [36:22]
- Ben & Jerry’s Half Baked ice cream
5. When your time comes, how do you want to be remembered? [36:50]
- As someone who helped others to feel less alone
Andrea talks about the Your Kick-Ass Life Podcast [37:40]
[38:32] Where to find Andrea
- Website: YourKickAssLife.com
- Instagram: /YourKickAssLife
- Twitter: @Andrea_Owen
- Facebook: /YourKickAssLife
- Pinterest: /YourKickAssLife
[39:29] Fitness contributor Kathleen Trotter on exercise resolutions for the new year
Kathleen Trotter is author of Finding Your Fit: A Compassionate Trainer’s Guide to Making Fitness a Lifelong Habit
In this conversation, Keith and Kathleen discuss:
- Is New Year’s really the best time for resolutions? [39:53]
- How Gretchen Rubin’s The Four Tendencies can help you with your resolutions [43:11]
- Where to find Kathleen [43:58]
- KatheenTrotter.com
- Instagram: KathleenTrotterFitness
- Twitter: KTrotterFitness
- Facebook: KathleenTrotter
[44:48] Closing words
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